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2022 Gala Celebration – October 9

2022 Gala – October 9, 2022.   2:00 pm – 5:00 pm

After two long years dominated by Covid-19 concerns during which no Gala was held, there will be a fundraiser Gala Celebration for the Sisters, Home Visitors of Mary on Sunday, October 9, 2022.  The Gala wil honor Fr. Norman Thomas for his life of dedication making known the message of love and peace that Jesus proclaimed.

Purchase individual tickets or a full table for six online by clicking here or by contacting Sisters, Home Visitors of Mary.

Passing of Sr. Mary Elise Chapman

Sr. Mary Elise Chapman passed to her eternal reward on Wednesday, August 31, 2022.   Sr. Elise joined Sister, Home Visitors of Mary in 1964.  Her SHVM ministries over nearly 60 years of service carried her to numerous Detroit-area parishes and institutions that were blessed by her enduring grace and generosity, marked by her bright and frequent smile.

“I, by the power of the Spirit, become a co-worker with God …”

Funeral services for Sr. Elise were held on Tuesday, September 6, 2022, at Cathedral Of The Most Blessed Sacrament, Detroit, with  Frs.  J.J. Mech and Fr. Tyrone Robinson co-celebrating.  Fr. Robinson shared with the congregation his fond memories of Sr. Elise in their youth as their families lived in the same neighborhood.    

Sr. Elise long resided at the IHM mother house in Monroe, MI, prior to her passing.

Sr. Mary Elise Chapman (Ludie Elise) was born 5/19/28 in Quittman, Mississippi to Alphonso  and Estelle (Bentley) Chapman the fourth of five children.  In 1929, the family moved to Detroit.  Sr. Mary Elise attended Detroit public schools graduating from the High School of Commerce in 1946. During her high school she worked at Barthwell’s Drugs. After graduating, her first job was as a cashier and bookkeeper for Wright Mutual Insurance Co. In 1951, because there were no further opportunities for advancement, she left and took a job at the Army Tank-Automotive Center.  She was always taking classes: business, statistics and even sewing and Latin American dancing.

Elise, following her sister Geraldine’s example, became Catholic at St. George in February, 1958.  Their mother followed her daughters into the Catholic church in 1960.

Elise says that she became very active at her parish because it was small and needed members in all the organizations.  She became president of the Sodality which she had joined because of her devotion toward the Blessed Mother and became a member of the third Order of St. Francis. Elise wrote that her attraction to being a religious sister began early as she watched the Sisters in her parish and read books on different orders, picturing herself being there with them.  Her experience in the Legion of Mary and in teaching religion classes drew her to enter the Sisters, Home Visitors of Mary Sept. 24, 1964.

Sr. Mary Elise ministered at Catholic Information Center as bookkeeper.  In 1979, Sr. Elise asked to change her ministry to parish faith formation.  As catechist and pastoral staff, sister ministered at St. Bernard, St. Luke, Patronage of St. Joseph and Madonna parishes.  She served at St. Francis Home for Boys, St. Mary of Redford and Bishop Borgess high schools as well as Madonna University.  She volunteered in the Dominican and Siena literacy centers.  She served on the Archdiocesan Pastoral Council.  Sr. Mary Elise was a founding member of the National Black Sisters Conference in 1968 and served on its board of directors.

Sr. Mary Elise wrote: Knowledge frees people.  It is light in the darkness.  Education can help to cultivate in people a sense of discovery, awakening them to search for truth … I see that the giving of myself in my ministry can be a way for new life to emerge.  Words are limited but the Spirit goes beyond words.  The Holy Spirit is a force showing warmth, concern, and giving motivation which is the source of creativity.  I, by the power of the Spirit, become a co-worker with God developing people through instructions and formation….”

Sr. Mary Elise Chapman, HVM.  Born 5/19/1928.  Entered HVM 9/24/64.  Passed to The Lord 8/31/22



Sr. Norma Pimentel Visit to Michigan

Sr Norma Pimentel

Sr. Norma Pimentel, executive director of Catholic Charities of the Rio Grande Valley, visited us in Michigan from June 24th through June 26, 2022.  Sr. Norma has been praised by Pope Francis and others for her work with refugees and immigrants to the United States.  In 2020, she was included on Time’s list of the 100 most influential people in the world.  Her schedule included stops in Grand Rapids, Romeo, Detroit, and Ann Arbor. At every stop Sr. Norma energized and challenged us to continue to be present for the most marginalized among us — especially the immigrants from Mexico and Central America who have sacrificed everything to find better lives for themselves and their families.  Sr. Norma quoted this from Pope Francis at every talk she gave over the three days:   “Go to bed at night tired from doing good.”

Click here for the article in Detroit Catholic on June 27th regarding Sr. Norma’s visit.

On Saturday evening, Sr. Norma made a presentation to over 200 people at the Basilica of Ste. Anne de Detroit.  We were joined by Rev. Monsignor Charles Kosanke and Paul Propson, CEO of Catholic Charities of Southeastern Michigan.

Catholic High school students from Metro Detroit had formed “Circles of Support” in each of their schools.  Their first project together was to collect supplies and money for Sr. Norma before she arrived.  The student presented what they had collected (including $1000, and boxes of soap, underwear, socks and toothbrushes.)  When Sr. Norma received the gifts, she explained to us why she requests socks and underwear. People, including children, arrive wearing their only pair of shoes which are dirty and wet. A dry pair of socks brings them some comfort. They may be wearing their only pair of pants. A change of underwear helps to make them more comfortable as well. We take for granted these small conveniences! We need to remember some people do no have that luxury.

Public domain photo: McCallen Immigrants

Sr. Norma was asked, “If you had all the money you needed, how would you use it?” She said she would give money–not to the governments–but to organizations and community agencies in Central America that could help the people directly so that they could stay in their home countries. 

At the end of the presentation, the students placed their hands on her shoulders and blessed her saying:

May God, the companion be with you,behind you, above and below you.

May you be smothered by God’s presence as you walk the path of your day.

May God’s hands catch yours when you stumble and applaud when you reach your goals.

May God the companion bring you blessing.

Written by Sr. Maxine Shonk OP (Adrian Dominican) and adapted for Sr. Norma.

Click here for the Stranges No Longer website.

Click here to  contribute to Sr. Norma’s Work


Gun Craziness is Idolatry

The following writing of Fr. Victor Clore, pastor of Christ the King Church, Detroit, on the timely topic of GUNS in the U.S. is copied from the parish bulletin THE BROADCAST of June 12, 2022.

I grew up in the country. We all hunted – pheasants, rabbits, raccoons – which was a sport, but it had the added purpose of adding protein to our diet. When we turned 12, every boy and some girls got our first gun. Usually it was a .410 caliber pump-action shotgun, which did not have such a hard kick-back that it would knock you on your butt. We all joined the NRA at that point, which was a gun safety organization. My father taught gun safety in the 4-H program.

Taking care of your gun, carrying your gun, cleaning your gun, all involved religious rituals, more exacting than serving Mass. You knew a gun was dangerous and accidents could happen. Once in a while you did hear about an accident. Usually when you asked about how it happened, it turned out to be a city-slicker who thought it would be fun to go hunting, without knowing how to be careful.

Guns for hunting, of course, are not automatic rifles, submachine guns or assault rifles. These guns are of no use for sport or even for self-defense.  The current craziness over the “right” to possess any kind of gun is idolatry.  As Jesus said, “You cannot worship two masters: God and Guns!” [OK, he said you cannot worship God and mammon, which is a unique word that implies grasping for wealth, or for your own pleasure rather than the good of others.]

The current cult of guns is clearly mammon worship.  It may have its origin in affliction, and it may involve jealousy and anger, and judging by the perpetrators, it involves a deformed character seeking revenge and notoriety, which is why it leads to violence.

The psalm response in today’s Mass states: “You have made humans a little less than the angels.”  Actually, we can degenerate into a lot less than angels.  The solution is in John’s Gospel at the Last Supper. “I have much more to tell you.”  “The Spirit of Truth will guide you to all truth.”  The Spirit will glorify Christ.  Everything the Creator has belongs to Christ, and the Spirit is taking what is of Christ and endowing us with Christ’s truth and love.

This is a much more profound entitlement than the Second Amendment.  God is not finished with us yet.  Holy Wisdom is still delightfully playing in God’s presence all the while and finding special delight in the human family.  Despite this affliction of gun worship that is contaminating us, we are called to be people of good character, and people of hope.  And hope in Christ will not disappoint.

Fr. Victor Clore

Christ the King Parish: We are Christ the King Parish, a richly diverse Christian Community in Northwest Detroit. We are on a journey of Discipleship with Jesus, seeking conversion, reconciliation and renewal. We reach out in welcome to all the people within our neighborhood, proclaiming the good News of Christ the King, building community, celebrating together, serving one another’s needs and the needs of all our neighbors.

Rev. Victor Clore – Pastor

Fr. Clore has been a parish priest in Detroit since 1966, always serving in racially integrating city parishes. His pastoral specialty is blending Holy Scripture and Human Psychology. He has taught at local Catholic colleges, and supports everyone’s participation at Sunday Mass, lay leadership, and a parish school that gives our children a good start.

May 1 Celebration Tea

Sunday May 1, 2022, was a beautiful celebration of supporters and friends coming together on the cusp of Spring and Mother’s Day.  This was the first Tea hosted by the Sisters since the outbreak of the Covid worldwide pandemic in March of 2020.  It was a very ecumenical group, with attendees representing fifteen or more faith communities and organizations from all around the Detroit area, showing support for the dedication of our Nigerian mission.

Arlene Reese, Librarian and Reading Specialist with the Parkman Branch of Detroit Public Library, shared poems and spoke of the serendipity of a community quilting project.  Soon the quilt from that project will be on display there for all who visit the Parkman library.  Sr. Rosemarie thanked her and told her that was the library branch that served her family when she was growing up.

Dolores McHale, a quilter from St. Raymond’s parish, was in attendance for the tea with her two daughters, Mary and Jane (pictured.)  Mrs. McHale has donated quilts to raise funds for the Sister’s mission in Nigeria over the years.

Sr. Rosemarie shared the history of the Sisters Home Visitors, from it’s start in Detroit to the growth of today in Nigeria.  She asked that attendees consider joining our fundraising committee in finding creative ways to continue to generate money for the good works of our Sisters in Nigeria.

Members of the Knights of Columbus Council 8118 from Blessed Sacrament Cathedral have been strong supporters of our Sisters.  They included Howard Witherington, Bishop Young and Gerard Carisse.  In this photo is Sister Elizabeth and Mr. Merton.

In this picture is Samuel Onyene, Bishop Young, Thelma Wilson, Sr. Elizabeth and Mr. Merton.

From Our Lady of Good Council parish and Detroit Catholic Central we had great help from Henry Graves, Kyle Robers and Charles Graves, as student volunteers.

Sister Rosemarie explained about how the funds raised would support the faith formation process for new candidates in the order.  They have three rural schools in Benway state, Nigeria in and around the farming community of the town of Ichama.  Vocational training is also a big need in Nigeria and the Sisters support a sewing training project for women there.

As a gift for attendees, a special musical CD, made by the Nigerian Sisters, was passed around.

Arlene Reese (pictured) shared the poems Human Beings inspired by a local police officer) and Mama’s Treasure Box, in honor of Mother’s Day.

Pictured here is Dorothy Buckman and Thelma Wilson, members of our fundraising committee along with Sr. Barbara.  They wanted to remind everyone that our Gala will be returning once again on Sunday October 9th this year.

Marian Ostrowski (pictured in the colorful vest) has been a volunteer and supporter of the SHVM from her youth.  Marian rode the bus down Woodward as a teenager to accompany the Sisters in their neighborhood work.

Changing people’s lives. One at a time.



Reflection on Fratelli Tutti Chapter 7

Opening Prayer by Jen Parker

Twenty four people joined with Sr. Rosemarie Abate, HMV in the spacious lower level meeting room at Cathedral of the Blessed Sacrament in Detroit on Saturday, April 30,2022, for the fourth group reflection on Fratelli Tutti, the encyclical issued by Pope Francis in 2020.  This reflection focused on Chapter 7 of Fratelli Tutti.


BEING ARTISTS AND ARCHITECTS OF PIECE:  “I ask God to prepare our hearts to encounter our brothers and sisters, so that we may overcome our differences rooted in political thinking, language, culture and religion.”  Pope Francis.  Chpt 7 # 254: 

Fratelli Tutti speaks to the modern world.  It helps us see the Spirit of Christ in our daily encounters calling us to loving relationships with all our brothers and sisters – all persons – on topics covering justice, mercy, politics and religion.  It sets forth Love as the path to building better, more just and peaceful societies worldwide.  Chapter 7 focuses on Peace, Justice and Mercy in the lives of both nation states and in the lives of individual children of God. 

Mr. Timothy Kane

Mr. Timothy Kane of FORC – Friends Of Returning Citizens – was the opening speaker.  FORC is a program of the Detroit Catholic Pastoral Alliance, founded by Craig Whilby and Jamil Allen-Bey. FORC advocates for criminal justice reform and works to provide assistance to persons in or returning from criminal justice proceedings.  Mr. Kane highlighted the innumerable needs and challenges encountered by these people.  FORC works to help them in a variety of ways.  FORC fundamentally believes in the upliftment of humanity with a wide-range social consciousness.  For more information or to volunteer or donate to FORC, email

Table discussions followed on component topics in Fratelli Tutti Chapter 7: attitudes on war, prisons, death penalty, life imprisonment, working for peace, nuclear armament, efforts to change laws and society.  Discussions were candid and enjoyable.  All agreed that the issues are extremely complicated.  There exists no single answer or silver bullet solution.  We are called to constancy; to prayer, to persistence and to insistence.  We are called to build a beloved community based on a culture of encounter –working to overcome inequality and for the integral human development of all our brothers and sisters.      

Closing prayer:  Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.  Where there is hatred, let me sow love.  Where there is injury, pardon.  Where there is doubt, faith.  Where there is despair, hope.  Where there is darkness, light.  Where there is sadness, joy.

 View Fratelli Tutti Chapter 6 Reflection here … 1-29-2022.

View Fratelli Tutti Chapter 3 Reflection here … 10-10-2021.

View Fratelli Tutti overview and resources …   CLICK HERE

Easter Prayer 2022

God of all life,

Help us to appreciate the great gift that is human life formed in your image, a reflection of your risen holiness.

Help up to recognize you in all whom you have created:

Children not yet born,
Families affected by poverty and war,
People of different abilities,
People from other lands, and
Victims of Hatred and Racism.

Help us to bear witness to the dignity of all whom you have created, regardless of stage of life, or wealth, or ability, or color, or creed.  For every person is fully equal in your loving eyes.

Share with us your holy knowledge that we are all your children, each bestowed with inherent dignity.

May your justice reign forever!   Amen

Reflection on Fratelli Tutti Chapter 6

More than twenty five people joined with Sr. Rosemarie Abate, HMV at Cathedral of the Blessed Sacrament in Detroit on January 29, 2022, for the second group reflection on Fratelli Tutti, the encyclical issued by Pope Francis in 2020.  This reflection focused on Chapter 6 of Fratelli Tutti.  The meeting room at the Cathedral is a great location for such meetings.  It provides excellent space and free parking in a central location.

Fratelli Tutti is both simple and profound.  It speaks to the modern world that we encounter every day, helping us to see the Spirit of Christ in our daily social encounters.  It calls us to loving relationships with all our brothers and sisters – all persons — on topics covering justice, mercy, politics and religion.  It sets forth love as the center path to building better, more just and peaceful societies worldwide.  Chapter 6 focuses on the importance of dialogue in pursuit of the Common Good.

“Pope Francis invites us to be people who, out of love, dialogue with all our brother and sisters.”

Sr. Mary Katherine, IHM, provided the opening keynote:  She highlighted that true dialogue is neither easy nor natural.  It needs a specific decision “to listen” to others.  It is more than just conversation.  Dialogue is active.  It takes practice, it takes energy, it takes skill.  When fully accomplished it achieves a beautiful “space” shared between individuals who speak to and “listen to” each other – their views, their perspectives, their worlds.

Table groups then discussed issues involved in the “art of encounter” … respecting others especially the poor and indigenous, how to distinguish between truth, opinion, perspective, how and when to give up our view for the common good.  Table discussions were candid and enjoyable.  All participants were fulfilled by a spirit of shared openness. 

Table reports were led by Jen Hunter.  Closing prayer was led by Sr. Rosemarie.

Please contact Sr. Rosemarie is you would like to join a future reflection on Fratelli Tutti.  Attendance is open to all persons of good will.

The next reflection on Chapter 7 of the encyclical is already scheduled for April 30, 2022, two Saturdays after Easter Sunday.

MLK Day 2022: A Confluence of Voices

Blessed Sacrament Cathedral

As institutions across the U.S. celebrated the life of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. in a variety of ways on January 17, 2022, sisters from Sisters, Home Visitors of Mary attended a beautiful mass for peace and justice honoring Rev. King at Blessed Sacrament Cathedral in Detroit.

A confluence of voices came together on this special day.  They all call for the passage of pending Federal legislation protecting and enhancing the right to vote.  Let us all pray together for a change of heart for those who are resisting the changes necessary to get this important legislation passed.

The Adrian Dominican Sisters Leadership Council issued a statement calling on our Senate to pass the Freedom to Vote Act and the John Lewis Voting Rights Advancement Act.  Here is a link to the statement.  As Dr. King once said, “We may have all come on different ships, but we’re in the same boat now.”   We are in the same blessed boat and we believe that our differences are a gift from God that we are called to honor, respect and value.

The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops  in conjunction with Poverty Awareness Month in the U.S., posted a reminder that ACTION is the twin of prayer …

“Local individuals and groups can make a real difference. We are able to instill a greater sense of responsibility, a strong sense of community, a readiness to protect others, a spirit of creativity and a deep love for the land. . . . Social problems must be addressed by community networks and not simply by the sum of individual good deeds” (Pope Francis, On Care for Our Common Home [Laudato Si’], nos. 179, 219).

People in every nation enhance the social dimension of their lives by acting as committed and responsible citizens: “responsible citizenship is a virtue, and participation in political life is a moral obligation” (Pope Francis, The Joy of the Gospel [Evangelii Gaudium], no. 220, quoting United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship, Nov. 2007, no. 13).

How we organize our society — in economics and politics, in law and policy — directly affects human dignity and the capacity of individuals to grow in community. The church teaches that every person has a right and a duty to participate in society, seeking together the common good and well-being of all, especially the poor and vulnerable.

A daily calendar of Poverty in America Month topics can be seen at


Christmas Message 2021

The words we speak with form the reality that will materialize tomorrow.  Let every word we speak be a word that promotes justice and peace, forgiveness and reconciliation.

Remember, God is in control. God is good. God is love.  God can transform human evil into good. We must continue to do what we can to change reality, and we must believe that God will change it in God’s own time.  Let every word we speak be a word that promotes justice and peace, forgiveness and reconciliation.  Our words create the worlds we and our children live in. Our words are words of war or of peace, of hatred or of love, of prejudice or of openness, and with the words we speak we form the reality that will materialize tomorrow.  -Cf.  Fr. David Neuhaus, SJ, Commonweal Magazine, October 2021

Home Visitors of Mary Greetings from Gwagwalada, Nigeria